How Do We Know We Are Not Loving Ourselves?



Before you take a sit, I want you to grab yourself a pen and paper and something tasty to drink. We are about to embark on a journey on learning all the signs about how you are not loving yourself.

I want you to write these down, look at them and decide which ones you need to work and how you going to take these signs and change them to become an positive way of self love.

Now the most important thing I want you to remember from all of this, is that this is not about you becoming a perfect person. It about you taking time every single day to make a conscious effort to live a life that is important to you and to feel good. Your feelings are an indication if you are in alignment with who you are, what you are supposed to be doing and what you are asking for.

Let’s begin…

#1 You don’t believe in yourself

#2 You are led by your fears 

#3 You constantly feel unloved. 

#4 You tend to blame yourself for everything

#5 You hide your true emotion

#6 You stop caring about how you look

#7 You keep getting stuck in toxic relationships

Check out this video to dig deeper into these first 7 signs and leave me a comment below which one resonates most with you.

See you next week when I return to share the last 8 signs of how you are not loving yourself.

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Nekisha Michelle, MSW is the only plus-size matchmaker in the world. Nekisha is a speaker, television personality, business owner, author and producer. She has a social media following of over 12,000 fans across all platforms combined. Her mission is to support women in becoming Ready Women who live happy, successful- lives and create sexy, healthy -relationships without overwhelm and conflict. Nekisha Michelle believes, The Ready Woman can have it all through B.L.I.S.S. (Beauty. Love. Intuition. Sensuality. Significance.)