Have you ever found yourself campaigning for a man’s love? By that I mean, you are doing everything you can to let him know you are interested, that you care about him, that you are safe, and that you are different from the other women he has been with. Then all of sudden, he has disappeared.
If this has happened to you, I want you to go grab a glass a wine, take a seat and watch the first 20 mins of this video and/or continue reading.
For some of you when a man disappears, your first instinct is to go into panic mode and start think about all the things that we did wrong and could have done differently. Then you decide you better make the next move to make sure that everything is okay to only find out that he’s been “busy”
Now what we want to do is not have him become too “busy” for you, so I am going to share a juicy nugget with you to help you avoid being ghosted.
You do not show him all your intentions and you do not put all your energy into him
It is important that you also surround yourself with other guys who you can have fun with. This will help you guard your heart, keep you busy and keep you occupied. When you put too much into one guy, he will feel that energy and start to think about whether he is ready for the long haul or not. This will have NOTHING to do about you, and he may not be ready for many different reasons.
When we step forward and start focusing on all the things that have changed with this one guy and telling him about them, you have to remember that he wasn’t going to be able to keep it up anyway. as like all things it was the excitement of you being something new. So when you start coming forward and being the one who is constantly texting and calling him, your roles have now shifted and you have become the pursuer instead of the one being pursued. This will lead him to think that you no longer have anything going on or anyone else in your life.
If he takes a step back, allow it and remember that it has nothing to do with you!
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Nekisha Michelle, MSW is the only plus-size matchmaker in the world. Nekisha is a speaker, television personality, business owner, author and producer. She has a social media following of over 12,000 fans across all platforms combined. Her mission is to support women in becoming Ready Women who live happy, successful- lives and create sexy, healthy -relationships without overwhelm and conflict. Nekisha Michelle believes, The Ready Woman can have it all through B.L.I.S.S. (Beauty. Love. Intuition. Sensuality. Significance.)